Feb 11, 2025
Paul Kindzia describes himself as a "homeschooled, non-denominational, it takes a village black belt" and had a very unique route to getting his BJJ black belt. He was a ronin, training at different schools and did a lot of his training in his home dojo. This paid off because he was a top IBJJF Masters competitor at blue, purple, and brown belt, before being awarded his black belt by a coalition of other black belts (myself included) in October of 2024.
In this episode we talk about so many things, including
- How to get really good if you don't train at a top-tier
school
- Key aspects of training safely
- How to say no to training with people who don't have your best
interests at heart
- What you need to do to calibrate your skills if you mainly train
one-on-one
- Cult-like dynamics at some BJJ schools
- What professional BJJ competitors do that sets them apart
- How to get promoted if you train independently
- How jiu-jitsu training has changed in the last 10 years
- And so much more.
For more about Paul's jiu-jitsu journey check out his site, The Balanced Grappler (https://www.thebalancedgrappler.com/) and his book, Master Jiu-Jitsu, Master Life (https://www.amazon.com/Master-Jiu-Jitsu-Life-Extraordinary-Through/dp/069216197X)
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Thanks so much,
Stephan Kesting
P.S. Check out my own book, Perseverance, Life and Death in the Subarctic at https://www.stephankesting.com/perseverance-book